Tuesday, 6th October 2015.
Setting: 2 pregnancy tests in the bin. Distraught and nauseated girl on the bed.
What to do next? Who to talk to? What will they say? Am I ready? I’m definitely not ready. But what is readiness? Am I a wuss? I don’t think so. But neither am I Wonderwoman. I should have known better. Infact I know better. But yet here I am. Do I pray? But does God love me at this point? I mean I’m fallen shoooort of His Glory. How does one even pray at this point? Why do I even pray? Because I believe in the Great I Am. And because at this point in time He has chosen me to be a Vessel of Life.
Present Sly: So I prayed and decided to start my day. With a great bout of nausea and lack of an appetite. Pregnancy brings with it such great joys sometimes 🙄
A couple of days later.
Setting: Still distraught but for other reasons. That and insane cravings for pineapples.
Okay. So we’re sure I’m expectant. But I am a student. In my mother’s house. With no stable income. How will my baby go to university? (Yes, I skipped the first 8-4, and went straight to the last 4 😂) Will my baby be a boy or a girl? What if I get a son? I barely understand girls, how on earth will I understand him? What will he eat? Will we stay with mum? I need my mummy. But my mummy doesn’t need an extra mouth to feed, Not right now with everything that’s going on (There was A LOT happening at that time.)
Where do people get maternity clothes? Are they expensive? Will they even look nice? I need to throw up but I’m so hungry. But I can’t eat. I can barely feed myself, how will I take care of a whole other human? This human being will be mine. For Life. I’m literally it’s transport. Blood of my blood. Flesh of my flesh. Will I raise a kind and loving person? Or will they turn into one of these brats I avoid because I can’t fathom how they turned out like so.
Present Sly: This went on for a long, long time. 37 weeks to be precise.
Credits: The Amazing @paddygedi
Sunday, 22nd May 2016.
The eagle has landed. (Read the journey here)
So she’s here. Yaaaayyy! She’s a she! I can work with this. I’m enjoying getting help from the nurses. And the meds that knocked me out were something! But it’ll all end soon. They’ll actually let me go home with her. Young, clueless me will go home with this baby and be expected to take care of her for the rest of her life. Dear Jesus, why did you grant me this gift? Just to clarify, I’m not complaining. I’m not being ungrateful. I just don’t get why you would trust my body and I to carry and then deliver this oh so precious being and mould her into what I hope will be the best version of herself.
Present Sly: Thursday, 14th September 2017.
The current state of the world we live in is heartwrenching. The hatred fueled by political climate, personal differences, greed for money and power is unimaginable. How we, as mortal beings, are capable of saying and doing some things is beyond me. Mother Nature must be mad too with the way things are going of late, hurricanes et al.
Will I always be there to protect my child? What kind of adult will she be? What kind of friends will she have by her side? More importantly, what kind of friend will she be? Will she love people from all walks of life, irrespective of their race, political inclination and social status? Will she be a light to those around her? Will she be bullied in school, will she be a bully or will she be a voice of reason? Will she feel worthy of love or will the world tell her that she’s not all that? Will she go after all she wants to be or will she be too afraid? These and many other thoughts run across my mind more often than anyone knows. Since the very day I discovered I was with child, I’ve had to constantly battle fear and anxiety. I’m still young & clueless 😂 But I am highly favoured by a God who changes not. He that made me a Vessel of Life will see us through it all.
Isaiah 41:4 : Who has done this and carred it through, calling forth the generations from the beginning? I, the Lord – with the first of them and with the last – I am He.
He will see us through. Stay encouraged, and Intentionally so. Because it gets hard to keep the faith. But it’s possible. This is the Journey of the Warrior.
Mama Mwihaki.